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Photos   3/30/2005

It may be just me, but when I see a photo submitted of a cock with another persons body parts I simply do not wish to get involved with that one. If you must show yourself in that manner why are you here? Obviously you already have that special friend . . . perhaps some like that. Another thing. . .I just don't think the size of anyones cock makes them a good or bad person, or the "one". Is ...


3 Comments, 188 Views, 6 Votes ,5.36 Score
Point system   3/29/2005

ok, this is half a general question and half a wee experiment. <br> Is this points system of participation on the site being 'rewarded' by little bits of access (as far as i'm aware this only applies to standard members) actually activated. A previous 'experiment' i did was sent a refereral, which didn't work cos the person didn't get it. Any similar thoughts from anyone? ...


8 Comments, 179 Views, 8 Votes ,3.25 Score
longshot2607 62 M
1  Article
this old book   3/24/2005

well we all heard the old saying you are as old as you feel to this I say bull do-do.you are old as people see you.Iam 43 and I feel like 20 and ready to go.yes I know I got some miles on me but they have been damn good miles not a one wasted. but people now days look at an old tatered cover of a book and think oh theres no color no thills no flash.they dont stop and realize that there is a ...


1 Comments, 45 Views, 2 Votes ,4.50 Score
sweetbabygurl02 35 F
1  Article
i dont know why guys like to lead girls on...   3/24/2005

why is it that a guy will come up to a girl to try and HOLLA and then they ask for the #, go out a couple of times and then just stop callin all of a sudden out of the blue. it sux. if they dont want to talk they can just flat out say it but guys are pussys


1 Comments, 15 Views, 2 Votes ,2.42 Score
Why are people scared?   3/23/2005

I just want to know why when you talk to a person for quite awhile they don't even share their name with you?I always do if i talk to or exchange notes, it makes it more personal.And i then like to get to know that person.


3 Comments, 150 Views, 7 Votes ,3.30 Score
When sore loosers get nasty..   3/23/2005

Why is it that so many males come on strong and when I tell them I'm not attracted they try to first change my mind and when that doesn't work they get nasty? I've noticed this a lot in the chat rooms. Maybe they think that if they are interested in me I should lay down a spread em? Don't they realize that physical attraction is a non negotiable item here? I'm not having sex with ...


10 Comments, 261 Views, 7 Votes ,6.10 Score
Pleasureville_sd 54 M
3  Articles
AdultFriendFinder Web Site Reliability   3/22/2005

I would like to know if anyone else has notice how S-L-O-W this web site is compared to most web sites. Recently I have experienced "white outs" on chat pages and get kicked out all together from time to time. This does not make me want to "upgrade" to the next level of membership. What gives?


5 Comments, 143 Views, 8 Votes ,6.03 Score
rm_fieryfairy 53 F
8  Articles
What is wrong with people?   3/21/2005

I can understand that maybe people don't know what they want out of life. With that said, shouldn't you figure it out, before leading others on? If you have read my other post, a woman stood me up. She was so immature that it took me several phone calls to find out that she changed her mind. Okay, it happens, but she could have at least told me, before I made the drive to meet her. ...


3 Comments, 483 Views, 6 Votes ,4.22 Score
Orgy, Anyone?   3/20/2005

I really want to get to know all of those people out there who are running all of those sex parties, don’t you. Here on AdultFriendFinder we call them “groups” but most people refer to them as orgies or gangbangs. Technically though, an orgy is a party where everybody has sex with everybody else as much as they can until they drop from exhaustion. It usually involves copious ...


1 Comments, 164 Views, 1 Votes ,3.70 Score
gonzo729 54 M
8  Articles
Dissapointed with what I paid for!   3/20/2005

I'm beging to get dissapointed in AdultFriendFinder. Yes I have the usual complaints about rude people & not getting replies to emails that I send to people. I'm starting to wonder if some of the emails I send are ever received. For a week (almost) I've been back and forth with the "support team" with problems. None of my magazine activity nor the fact that I started a group for people in my small, ...


1 Comments, 166 Views, 4 Votes ,5.19 Score
some personal stauts   3/20/2005

Ok I am ranting again lol what I am really surprised is that since I have posted my ad that most women for 1 do not read the entire ad plus the headline? Everything about what I want and looking for is there, I see no hidden agendas or lies?? maybe more to the point is that if it is understood about someone's status IE ( Married , but looking or separated or attached ) that the others ...


0 Comments, 69 Views, 2 Votes ,3.81 Score
rm_johnbig7 59 M
11  Articles
does anything ever change on this site.   3/20/2005

I have been a member of this site on and off for many years, all I might add as either a silver or gold member.Over the years I have noticed that AdultFriendFinder are eager to introduce new things that members have to pay for, yet when it comes to updating things personal matches, new member photos they are extremely slow. Because of this I decided to cancel my membership and leave it for a while. 6 ...


2 Comments, 155 Views, 13 Votes ,6.16 Score
rm_silkbodee 50 M
10  Articles
Why don't you write?   3/20/2005

Hey, I can handle it if you aren't interested but at least send me something telling me to buzz off! If you don't tell me to leave you alone I have no idea that I'm bothering you so until you say something I don't know what else to do. I wish I could see who you were writing to because it would be nice to see the qualities that you are truly looking for.


3 Comments, 181 Views, 4 Votes ,2.47 Score
A FEW OBSERVATIONS ABOUT AdultFriendFinder   3/20/2005

I’m a single guy and have been on this site for almost a year. After all the tireless hours of reading, sifting through profiles and emailing, I’ve noticed the following few things: <br> When I email someone for the first time, I never bring up the matter of sex. I send emails that tell a little bit about me and my emails are nicely put, written with class, ...


1 Comments, 25 Views, 22 Votes ,5.77 Score
The ebay Principle   3/20/2005

After reading a plethora of articles and responses relating to “is there any real people” or “why people don’t answer email” ect, ect. The thought occurred to me that if these people were accountable for their actions or lack of, like ebay, the laws of natural order would weed them out. Hmmmmm…why did I just tell the world this great idea? Maybe ...


4 Comments, 133 Views, 0 Votes
rm_beamer47 68 M
9  Articles
Erotic stories   3/19/2005

Is it just me or can you only read so many erotic stories before they all seem to become bland and blend into one?? Do we need to know every bra size, " she had 44dd titties" wouldnt WOW she had the biggest nicest titties i`ve ever sucked. oooooooooooh aaaaaaaaaaaaaah, i`m cuming just doesnt seem to turn me on anymore. How about some "i fucked my mother/ or doggie stories.


3 Comments, 154 Views, 5 Votes ,1.84 Score
Where is he now???????   3/19/2005

I was online with a man for about 4 months chatting nearly every second day.. meeting him in other chat rooms and just having a good ole laugh. We often flirted and we asked each other the most intimate questions, as he was Bi as well. We had given each other our stats from the get go and expected nothing from each other..then came the day we were to meet, just for a coffee.He was not what ...


2 Comments, 32 Views, 9 Votes ,5.35 Score
Wimpy Women   3/18/2005

I just read an article, under the category "Dating", that really annoyed me. This women states: men want her to "go at it" when they first meet. She says she would consider herself easy if she agrees to the sex. Then she blames pressure from this sexually loose "society", we supposedly live in, for making her question her attitude towards sex on the first date. Her question to the members: ...


2 Comments, 124 Views, 10 Votes ,4.58 Score
I have a complaint!   3/18/2005

As a Standard member working on getting enough points to get one month of Silver statis, I have noticed that sometimes when I click on a name it will not only tell me all about them, but let me write to them. I couldn't figure this out right away, until I saw that a Gold or Silver member can pay extra to let Standard member contact them. I thought "What a great idea"! I have no complaints ...


3 Comments, 233 Views, 16 Votes ,4.74 Score
Votes without Comments   3/18/2005

It really bothers me when I post an article for advice, or ask a question, and then get votes without comments. (Obviously, if the article is just the opinion of the author, then the votes make sense.) But, isn't the whole point of asking for advice, or an answer to a question, to get a RESPONSE? I post so I can get new information, ideas, and perspectives from the other members. ...


17 Comments, 218 Views, 8 Votes ,3.48 Score
rm_cookie66 58 M
1  Article
why bi   3/17/2005

why do so many women say they are bi but never want a man surely that means they are lesbians ( dosnt it?)Can ANYONE explain ?


2 Comments, 146 Views, 4 Votes ,2.86 Score
girluwant79 45 F
3  Articles
Why do guys try not to cum?   3/17/2005

Why does it seem like guys try their hardest to prolong ejaculation as long as possible? If I'm going down on a guy and he blows his load in 30 seconds, that's like best compliment he could ever give me. So why do they usually stop me? Personally I don't enjoy being ridden for hours on end, long past when I have finished. 15 minutes (or less) is ideal. Why do so many guys look at it as a ...


10 Comments, 421 Views, 13 Votes ,3.98 Score
Pleasureville_sd 54 M
3  Articles
AdultFriendFinder Is Overated   3/17/2005

I have been a member for about 4 months now. It doesn't really seem like there are many people getting together on this site. There are plenty of fakes (web site spammers), flakes and talkers, but where is the action? I would love to hear about any success stories out there.


1 Comments, 193 Views, 4 Votes ,5.57 Score
rm_shemaleVIDA 60 F
14  Articles
A Heartless Bitch   3/15/2005

A Heartless Bitch ® is simply an example of the way women should be! Strong, intelligent, irreverent, independent, demanding, evolving, witty, unsatisfied and possessing emotions of steel.


1 Comments, 31 Views, 7 Votes ,3.55 Score
rm_shemaleVIDA 60 F
14  Articles
Conversation   3/15/2005

Conversation is the test that separates the intelligent from the dumbasses, but most importantly conversation separates the people worth my time and the people who aren't!


1 Comments, 33 Views, 12 Votes ,5.80 Score
Do Penis pics really break the ice with ladies?   3/15/2005

I find it interesting how most guys attempt to make initial contact with prospective females by sending a "howdy" and a "Woody"! I suppose the mans' thought is that women are as visual as they are and that they are only surfing AdultFriendFinder for the "Dick Pics". My experience has usually been that most women need to know at least a something more about the entire "Package" before they unwrap the ...


6 Comments, 226 Views, 9 Votes ,2.78 Score
markdco 69 M
10  Articles
Censorship?   3/12/2005

Anyone else ever wonder about this...when we post a network bulletin....it's always "pending approval"...? <br> Why? <br> This isn't in out in the public domain side of the site and considering that it's an OPT IN to even be in a network....why is an "approval" needed?


6 Comments, 274 Views, 9 Votes ,5.14 Score
Race Issues   3/12/2005

Alright let's rant shall we? <br> Well I'm writing this because I want to say that as a Black Female..there is nothing more peeving to me than men who are non-Black (whatever race you may be) that will email me looking for a "hookup" with a "sista". <br> And I always know because if you look at their profile, then you can see that that little box that's marked "race" is ...


14 Comments, 762 Views, 22 Votes ,6.73 Score
NEWS FLASH>> Should All Sex Toy's Be Banned??   3/12/2005

I'm sure all of you have heard the news.. about the question - Should all sex toy's be banned? with three states voting YES, so far.. Ok women get out your vibrators..Wonder what they are going to give us for turning in our toy's.. In Los Angeles, every time a gun was turned in, they handed out a *turkey*.. Just think, if a gun is worth a turkey, what we might get for our vibrators.. ...


19 Comments, 420 Views, 12 Votes ,5.45 Score
joelbert 56 M
3  Articles
Read this: Not sure I can take this anymore   3/11/2005

I have been looking for a woman that is real. And I was to assume that the women on this site are what they say they are. But for the last 2 1/2 months, I have not gotten any play. The women that I have talked to are just that, talk. They also don't represent themselves acurately. The average women on here are looking for men out of their league that may not want them entirely or honestly. ...


1 Comments, 119 Views, 2 Votes ,3.12 Score