i desire to be claimed and lovingly but aggressively, trained with the intent of being owned and collard for full-time use by an established, experienced Dom. i am available to be trained for Your pleasure as i have not been tainted by a previous Dom's rules and structure. i have not yet been an owned submissive or participated in a BDSM scene, however, do not be mistaken in thinking that i am a total novice...  i became interested in this lifestyle back in 2015 realizing that D/s is what had been missing from my sex life and would most likely benefit all other areas of my life.  As i do with most everything i am interested in,  i dove in hard and fast. i read books, articles, studies, blogs and watched a wide variety of fetish videos. i even started an anonymous submissives blog, gaining over a 1k followers in just a few months. Once i felt i was ready to begin training with a Sir i posted my bio on several sites. i had 3 wonderful long-distance Sirs over 9 months and i learned and discovered a lot about the lifestyle and myself through training and playing with them. The 3rd Sir, i spent 3 months training and playing with, on-line, phone, video chat etc. We decided to meet and enter into a contracted D/s relationship. When he arrived he was nothing like the man i had come to know over the last 3 months. He was rude, insensitive, harsh, impatient, rough and had grossly misrepresented himself physically. It made me so ill being with him, yet when he forced himself on me...i just let him. i rationalized that he had driven so far and spent so much money on toys and the hotel that i, what?, owed him?!? WTF right?!? Needless to say that really ruined ALL of it for me! i felt so much shame and anger and i no longer trusted myself or the lifestyle. So, i trashed everything,  photos,  journals,  calendars, videos,  all of it. That was a little over 2 years ago and i am finally ready to try again. i absolutely give my all. Will You?  i am very obedient, loyal, honest, always open in communication and highly committed to strive for excellence as Your perfect submissive slut/friend/lover/life partner,  in the bedroom and in everyday life. You MUST fit the following criteria; be a completely single, straight, experienced Dom in Your 40's looking for a monogamous,  long-term, possible live-in D/s relationship. You must live close by or be able to travel to me fairly often. You MUST be: Honest,  Intelligent,  Kind-Hearted, Patient, Tender, Firm but Understanding, Trust Worthy, Energetically and Socially Aware, Witty, Curious, Spontaneous, Outdoorsy and Gentlemanly. If You have a true passion for a conscious life burning in Your soul and a growly, commanding Wolf Dom boiling in Your blood...come be my Sir, my Master, my Man, my Dom, my Human, my World, as i will be Yours.  ~sub K

What types of sexual activities turn you on?:
Giving Oral Sex, Receiving Oral Sex, Anal Sex, Toys (Vibrators/Dildos/etc.), Rimming, Fetishes, Light Bondage, Hard Bondage, Candle Wax, Spanking, Role Playing, Slave/Master, Making Home "Movies", Participating in Erotic Photography, Handcuffs/Shackles, Breast/Nipple Torture, Clamps, etc., Blindfolds, Leather, Latex, Massage

What factors are most important to you when looking for a sexual partner?:
Sexual experience, Physical attraction, Same/similar fetishes, Experience in a certain role (top/bottom; master/slave), Sexual appetite, Willingness to freely discuss and try anything, Creativity/Kinkiness level

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