Earth Water Fire Air… Am a little bit of all these… Can be strong like the Earth, Unpredictable like the flow of Water… Bright and fierce like Fire… And sometimes as impossible to tame as Air is… One thing you will not get with me is ‘bored’.. I've been married, and separated. Have a cute li'l , too :) So basically I've been the marriage way and I don't really think I'm marriage material. Am currently looking for an intelligent, mature sexual relationship. If you’re wondering how intellect or maturity can ever be related to a sexual relationship, you can stop reading here and keep browsing through other profiles displaying half naked pictures. If you are still reading, I shall assume that you would want to know a bit more about what exactly I mean by 'intelligent and mature'… Well, am looking for a partner with whom I can spend some time… maybe not everyday, but surely more than once a week… There should be no social issues or hang ups about being seen together in public. A dinner date, a spontaneous late night cuppa coffee and the occasional roll in the hay. I really enjoy long kisses, and longer conversation interspersed with witty remarks and laughter. I love making love, cuddling, and laughing in bed. I love driving, and trekking, and biking, and am not averse to luxury travel either. So if you enjoy traveling and are game for traveling together, you're my guy! Am not looking for your money, I have a satisfactory amount of my own, thank you, but am not looking for a foster either.. So each of us pays their own way.. I’m very upfront, which occasionally translates into 'rude', but have recently learnt to be polite at times :P. I have never been pampered, but wouldn’t mind being taken care of, for a change. Am not into the flowers and chocolates routine, at all, but an occasional display of chivalry wouldn’t go unnoticed. I am a workaholic. I totally love my work, and a new business idea gives me the same kind of high that I get with an orgasm that goes on and on. In my spare time, I paint, read, write, and travel… My work allows me to keep my own hours, so I don’t really have a fixed schedule. I like having my own space, and don’t like being cornered, and I won’t intrude in your space either, but honesty is a must. I haven’t learnt to tolerate lies and deception.

My Ideal Person Am looking for a guy between 34-50 ( No offence intended to older/younger guys) who is focused in his career, stable emotionally, and yet is not averse to spontaneity and fun. He should be able to at least understand wit, if not display it. Common sense is a bigger priority than qualifications, and intellect will be valued way over holding an important position in a big corporate.

The guy should be intelligent, self assured (not over-confident) man, who can see 'fun' when it's staring him in the eye. Someone who can look beyond the conventional definitions and dare to live life on his own terms.

Body odour, showing-off, and loud behaviour are a turn off.

Well, that’s it for starters. You might have noticed that I haven’t come around to mentioning looks. Well, I wouldn’t judge you by your looks, but you would have to be able to carry yourself well and be comfortable in your own skin if you hope for us to meet again.. Maybe what I’ve written sounds like a tall order, but I’d rather keep out the riff-raff sending me junk mails.

Have you ever had cybersex?:
I've tried it, but it's just not the same.

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