Don't take my first line wrong- I'm interested in talking to and meeting individuals as well, and have an open curiosity about any and all potential connections. I'm very interested in making new friends and reconnecting with old friends in the lifestyle and scene. And, I do have a particular very serious interest in threesomes, foursomes, and small group play. I'm open to virtually any configuration. In the past I had a good deal of experience as a third for couples, as well as playing with singles and couples as part of a couple.

My Ideal Person My ideal person is open, curious, experimental, a bit kinky, safe, intelligent, humorous, highly sexual, strongly enjoys receiving oral sex but also climaxes from penetration (perhaps among other things), spontaneous, creative, grounded, self-aware and self-actualized, employed (or employable), married or otherwise in a relationship but available, and frequently so, confident and charismatic, attractive but not necessarily classically or conventionally so, educated, adventurous, and kind.

That's not asking too much in a play-partner, is it? Clearly this is an ideal, and I neither require these traits in a friend or partner nor would the absence of one or more (even many more) would not cost one my friendship or companionship. I strongly believe that there is something to learn from and appreciate in nearly everyone. Just please don't prove me wrong on that last point and we'll be fine.

What types of sexual activities turn you on?:
Giving Oral Sex, Receiving Oral Sex, Anal Sex, Sadomasochism, Toys (Vibrators/Dildos/etc.), Urolagnia (Water Sports/Urine), Rimming, Fetishes, Light Bondage, Hard Bondage, Candle Wax, Spanking, Role Playing, Threesomes, Slave/Master, Mutual Masturbation, Making Home "Movies", Participating in Erotic Photography, Voyeurism, Breast/Nipple Torture, Clamps, etc., Leather, Latex, Fisting

What factors are most important to you when looking for a sexual partner?:
Sexual experience, Physical attraction, Same/similar fetishes, Ability to be discreet, Open to ménage à trois and/or orgies, Sexual appetite, Willingness to freely discuss and try anything, Agreeable to a commitment free sexual relationship, Creativity/Kinkiness level

Have you ever had cybersex?:
I've tried it, but it's just not the same.

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