Hi there, and thanks for taking the time to read this. I am a 44 year old married male, who seeks to fulfill fantasies that have been brewing for a long time. I am 5-8", dark brown hair cut short, blue eyes, and am quite intelligent and articulate. I lived in Calgary for 24 years and have been living in Edmonton for 3 years. I have had a couple of relationships (with men) in the past few years, but they have left me wanting more. I know I am an excellent lover - every woman I have ever been with has told me I am the best. My ex's still call me to have sex, even though we've been apart for some time. I need to explore the other side of my sexual desires more. I am not looking for a serious long term relationship with a man... my desires that way are still hetero. However, I would like a friendship. This is not to say I wouldn't be interested in raw, unbridalled sex with no strings. All I can tell you for sure is that I AM ready for all you can give me - and I won't miss a drop!

My Ideal Person I seek a man who is eager for the pleasures I can give. I'd like someone close to my age (35-50), who is free with their sexuality so that I (we) may explore. Good looking is not as important as clean and sophisticated - like me. I guess size DOES matter... I would be intimidated by a man MUCH larger than me, I'm 185 lbs. These things are just generalizations - attitude is really everything. Write to me and introduce yourself - I promise to write back - no matter what! ...I can't wait!!!!!

What location do you fantasize about for a sexual encounter?:
A moving vehicle (i.e. car)

What types of sexual activities turn you on?:
Giving Oral Sex, Receiving Oral Sex, Anal Sex, Sadomasochism, Toys (Vibrators/Dildos/etc.), Urolagnia (Water Sports/Urine), Rimming, Fetishes, Light Bondage, Candle Wax, Spanking, Role Playing, Threesomes, Slave/Master, Mutual Masturbation, Making Home "Movies", Participating in Erotic Photography, Voyeurism, Handcuffs/Shackles, Breast/Nipple Torture, Clamps, etc., Leather, Latex

What factors are most important to you when looking for a sexual partner?:
Same/similar fetishes, Ability to be discreet, Sexual appetite, Willingness to freely discuss and try anything, Creativity/Kinkiness level

Have you ever had cybersex?:
I've tried it, but it's just not the same.

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