I'm a 47 year old straight divorced male looking for female companionship and friendship. Sure, hopping in the sack with someone for some no strings fun is always exciting, but I would like to find someone I could connect with intellectually as well. In my previous marriage, my wife and I did some swinging and I really enjoyed it. I would like to find someone who is interested in the lifestyle, but is also interested in doing it in the context of a relationship and sharing it with their partner. Some people may think that type of openness is weird in committed relationship, but I think it actually makes you closer because you have to completely trust in each other. Also, it is socially taboo and it's fun to share that "naughty secret" with someone knowing that your family and friends have no idea that you are into that type of activity. It is something you only share with each other (and the people you choose to be with) so I think that also brings you closer. I'm a funny, non-judgmental and non-jealous per. I'm a normal, hard-working professional who loves family and friends. I consider myself very social and very loyal. I have plenty of pictures to share,, but due to ren, family, and my profession, I must be discreet.

My Ideal Person I'm looking for a woman who would like to have a normal, sane boyfriend but who is interested in the extracurricular activity I described above. I'm not interested in rushing into anything... let's chat and see where it goes.

What location do you fantasize about for a sexual encounter?:
My desk at work

What types of sexual activities turn you on?:
Giving Oral Sex, Foursomes

What factors are most important to you when looking for a sexual partner?:
Physical attraction

Have you ever had cybersex?:
I've tried it, but it's just not the same.

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