I know what I am looking for and it is a passionate connection for occasional play. Quick NSA is not for me (I can get that with a phone call). So before you send me an email make sure of the following: (And I have been told this is arrogant but just trying not to bs you) 1. You have a face pix and a body pix (does not have to be naked) either in your profile or attached to the email. I don't need to see your cock until I know we click. Possible chemistry starts with a picture. 2. Your first email to me is not a one line thing you throw to every woman hoping for a response. We are all adults and good conversation is necessary for FWB. One line emails WILL be ignored. 3. I do not move contact off the site until after a meet and we are both sure the chemistry is there If I set up a meet it will be casual with no sex over coffee or drinks preferably soon so neither of us is wasting time trading emails. 4. Be able to host. This says more about you than you know. And since my goal is for a regular FWB hotel rooms are so NSA they're a major turn-off. 5. Sorry but if you're farther than a 20 minute drive from me you're too far. This is directly related to point 4. 6. Attraction has a physical component that I find most desirable in men in the 27-50 age group. If you're out of these ranges there would have to be strong reason to sway me. Size or skill would not be one of them. 7. Make a date with me and stand me up and I WILL report you as a fake profile to the Admin. As I edge over to 60 I don't need marathon sex or the most talented male in bed or the hugest cock. I do need lots of oral and lust with great conversation and the desire to see me both in and out of the bedroom. Skills in this area are a must and a responsive body to my touch is a wonderful experience.

My Ideal Person The ideal person gets and likes all the above and understands the definition of an FWB is someone who connects with me in 3 ways.

1. Respect! Both you to me and me to you. So you are not married or attached and cheating or just looking for anyone to fuck. If you use the word "Discretion" that is a red flag word to me. My ideal should want to meet someone you click with and enjoy their company in a continuing friendship.

2. Lust. Lust that makes me want to walk across the room and begin stripping you naked as quickly as I possibly can. Sometimes its the way you lust me that brings out my lust for you. Sometimes.

3. An equally important part of lust Its a genuine friendship connection where we manage to get along out of the bedroom almost as well as in it. This is the friends part of FWB. When it clicks its fabulous!

Big clue if you love Alternative music going to Coachella or EDC prefer Action movies over Oscar winners and Basketball over romantic walks on the beach, well already we have similar interests

What are your favorite musicians or bands?:
Nothing But Thieves, Panic at the Disco!, Radiohead

What types of sexual activities turn you on?:
Giving Oral Sex, Toys (Vibrators/Dildos/etc.), Spanking, Role Playing, Threesomes

What factors are most important to you when looking for a sexual partner?:
Physical attraction, Fun in & out of bedroom

Ever fantasized about having sex with a celebrity? Who? What turns you on about them?:
All the time, but fantasies about my favorites are even
better!

Have you ever had cybersex?:
I've tried it, but it's just not the same.

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