masc, tall, athletic swm 6'2", clean, travelled, educated, occasionally even funny... i'm a safe, discrete guy who likes to please a woman in that writhing tangled mess of heated passion that can start with a barely touched kiss only to explode as "the beast with two backs" as Vonnegut once put it... in a few minutes, or an hour, or two and then send out for chinese, of course...

My Ideal Person looking for some sensual physical fun with a woman who enjoys some passionate play on a cool evening... I'd like to leave you in that lovely smiling fatigue of dampened sheets, the winter room too cold to think about getting out from under, head nudged in my shoulder, perhaps I'll stay a while, too... like Fellini said, "if you didn't make love today, you've missed a day", it's gone - can't make it up...

Although, I've no expectations of anything long term, like a good dance partner, it only gets better as you get to know each others' desires... Of course, if you like to frequent smokey jazz dives, talk, ski, hike with a good bottle of rioja, well, I do like to play outside, too.

And...

When you find the one that stops you in your tracks, makes you smile with the sound of her voice, this may all seem like folly. She's there, somewhere, you'll see it in her eyes, you'll know it in her smile. And when she slides her hand to hold onto the small of your back, you'll remember that you once were alone. Hold her tight and kiss her when she least expects it. Caress her gently till she sleeps on your shoulder, and make love as though tomorrrow will never come. In the end it won't matter whether the sun rises, but how lovely it was to fall asleep in her arms.