I've been up. I've been down. Now I'm back in town. Been gone from Richmond since 99. Now I'm back and not going anywhere anytime soon. I'm back on AFF, checking out the local scene. If you like what you see, send me a message. Ciao! \\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\******UPDATE 3/13/13****** Ok. I've taken a couple of days to think about this while reading some of the other profiles on here. Who am I? I'm a musician, a hard worker, and an independent per. I have my own place, my own car, and I pay my bills on time. I value honesty, integrity, friendship and family. I would rather be doing something, anything, than doing nothing. I would read a book before I watch TV. I am a gourmet cook, but sometimes I enjoy a pecan waffle from the Waffle House. I enjoy eating at fine restaurants, having a glass of port after dinner, and listening to a jazz trio. I also enjoy a big meaty hamburger, hot wings, and hard rock. I like to travel, explore new places, and learn new things. I also like to relax at home, cook on the grill and listen to the sounds of the night on my back deck. I love to golf and I would love to have someone to golf with. If you don't know how, I would be willing to teach you. You don't have to be good at something to enjoy doing it. Sometimes, just being with someone else creates it's own enjoyment. I enjoy sex tremendously. I am open to anything that doesn't cause unwanted pain, disgust or disfigurement. My greatest pleasure comes from seeing my partner have pleasure. I am intelligent, educated, confident, and tenacious. I don't give up just because something is difficult. I have a good sense of humor. I am unflappable. I can roll with the punches and give my own in return. Life is something that should be taken in big bites, not tiny nibbles. I can solve most problems quickly. I can swing a hammer, turn a screw, use a paint brush or fix a leaky faucet. I almost always have a project I am working on. I keep both myself and my place clean, but I don't mind a lived in look. I look for values when I shop. I would rather buy a $100 dollar pair of shoes that would last 10 years than a pair of $10 dollar shoes that might last a year. I am neither an optimist nor a pessimist. I am a realist. I don't bitch about what I can't change. I take what comes and make the best of it. If life gives me lemons, I take the seeds and plant lemon trees. So that, one day, I can take all the lemons I can harvest, and throw them back.

My Ideal Person I am looking for some who is comfortable with themselves first and foremost. I don't care what color you are, what religion you are, or what size you are (although I do prefer larger women!). I firmly believe that if you can't be happy in your own skin, then you can't truly be happy with someone else.
I will admit that I like a woman who has a nice ass. Big is fine. Bigger is fine too!
I also love to lick pussy. Sometimes that's all I want! I can lick for as long as you can take it. I am a brass musician. IE, a well developed tongue.
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What am I looking for? I'm not looking to screw just anyone who wants to. I would rather find someone to be friends with. If we can be compatible up front, then I believe we can be compatible out back. I am not a closet prude and I don't want you to be either. Let's find out if we can be together in other ways. Can we cook together? Can we travel together? Can we agree on a movie to watch? Can we deal with each others foibles on a day to day basis?
The past is not as important to me as the future. The past may define who we are now, but it does not dictate what we do tomorrow. Life is all about choices. Make a choice based on what you believe will give you the best outcome, not on what you think will be the least hurtful. Change is never without risk. And neither is love.
I am not necessarily looking for Love, with a capital L. But I'm not trying to steer clear of it either. If we work out, great. If we don't, I hope we can figure it out before we go too deep. Nothing is worse than a relationship that becomes placid, stale, boring. A relationship that exists for it's own sake.
Don't be afraid to tell me what you want. I would rather you be honest with yourself as well as me. If you need me to do something, tell me. Whether we are talking about in or out of the bedroom. If it is at all possible, I will do it.

What are your favorite musicians or bands?:
Anyone who makes good music.

What types of sexual activities turn you on?:
Giving Oral Sex, Receiving Oral Sex, Anal Sex, Toys (Vibrators/Dildos/etc.), Urolagnia (Water Sports/Urine), Rimming, Fetishes, Light Bondage, Spanking, Role Playing, Mutual Masturbation, Handcuffs/Shackles, Blindfolds, Leather, Fisting, Massage

What factors are most important to you when looking for a sexual partner?:
Sexual experience, Physical attraction, Same/similar fetishes, Sexual appetite, Willingness to freely discuss and try anything, Creativity/Kinkiness level

Have you ever had cybersex?:
I've tried it, but it's just not the same.

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